Ok so me and my man have been going out for almost a year and a half. On our 1 year anniversary he bought me a pendant with a heart on it, not really that expensive but definetly nice. Then this Christmas he bought me a gold necklace with a pearl on it and 3 diamonds above the pearl. I am just wondering what is the meaning behind a guy giving his gf necklaces. He knows I wear necklaces a lot and rings, but no ring yet. Some people have told me that the next thing will be a ring that he is just working his way up to purchase something bigger.
yep, hes just working himself up
he probably wanted something in return
,if u get my drift
well im really happy for u i think so too!
I do know that three diamonds usually signified past, present, and future!
Sounds like it… necklaces are safe but still personal purchases. He may be on his way to a ring. Have you ever talked engagement?
People assume too much. He knows you like necklaces so he buys them for you. As to him building his way up he may or may not be but those gifts don’t suggest to me anything except he really likes you.
the same goes 4 me cuz ma bf bought me a gold chain wit my name on it … he’s jus tellin u how much he appreciate u n how much u mean 2 him.. so don’t think wrong he jus loves u .. YUR REllY SPECIAL 2 HIM . =] hope the ring is next ..
It’s a gift; don’t read into it, just enjoy it.
If it has you wondering where your relationship is going, you’re asking the wrong people. This is a discussion for you and your boyfriend to have, not you and a bunch of strangers on Yahoo. There is no standard definition for what a necklace means, all that matters is what is means *to him*. So go ask him, because that’s the only way to find out.
possably i think he cares about u alot.
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I love a guy who gives jewelry! My bf has bought me several necklaces, a bracelet, earrings, etc. Why so caught up in “the ring”? Just enjoy what you have & don’t rush it!
He obviously likes giving you jewelry, but isn’t ready for an engagement ring. I don’t consider a ring as jewelry, it’s more of a commitment token.
Maybe he just thought the necklace was pretty. My male friend bought his girlfriend of a year two necklaces as well for two seperate occasions. not because there was a meaning behind it…but just because he thought the necklaces were pretty.
I don’t think guys really think about it as deep as you are. He notices that you wear necklaces, so he buys you necklaces. He probably hasn’t bought a ring for one of two reasons: one, he sees that you attach some deep meaning to what he is doing and doesn’t want to send out the “wrong” message by buying a ring, or two, he doesn’t know what size ring you wear. Necklaces are one size fits all. I’m guessing a combination of both, especially since you don’t seem to be satisfied with what you have received so far and are just looking for the next big gift. Why does he have to purchase something “bigger”? They call that attitude gold-digging, and it’s not an attractive trait.
woo lucky you! its obvious he really loves you!. The people are right! He’ll give you a ring soon! woo
he is afraid of what you will think of it. even though you may not think it guys worry a LOT. it took me 2 months just to pick out the right necklace to give my girlfriend. I wanted it to be perfect. I also spent 3 months planning on how to give it to her. what i am saying is he might have plans of giving a ring to you. he might have picked out a special day. if he has already given you two necklaces that shows that he is committed. so give him the benefit of the doubt. plus, he may not know you want a ring. tell your girl friends to hint to your boyfriend that he should get you a ring
What it means is, he’s a nice guy! Why would you question this? He probably bought the necklace because you like nnecklaces